3-Minute Monologue on “Love Jihad” (Roman Hindi)

 "Jab pyaar ka naam lekar dhoka diya jaata hai na… uska dard sirf woh samajh sakta hai jiska dil tod diya gaya ho. Aur sabse khatarnak cheez kya hoti hai? Jab pyaar ka istemaal weapon ki tarah hota hai. Jab mohabbat ke bahaane pe pehchaan badli jaati hai. Jab trust ko tool bana kar zindagi ke saath khela jaata hai.

Aaj main pyaar ke khilaaf nahi bol raha… main fraud pyaar ke khilaaf bol raha hoon. Woh pyaar jo naam badalta hai, dharm chhupata hai, irade chhupata hai… aur court mein, news mein, saalon baad sach saamne aata hai ki sab ek planning thi.

Tum pyaar chuno, koi problem nahi… par pyaar tabhi chuno jab saamne wala apni asli pehchaan ke saath, apni sachchai ke saath khada ho. Agar koi shuru se jhooth bol raha hai, naam galat batara hai, apni family, apna dharm, apni intentions छुपा raha hai… to samajh lo, pyaar nahi, ek trap shuru ho chuka hai.

Sabse pehle jhooth, phir isolation — ‘tumhare dost sahi nahi’, ‘tumhari family conservative hai’, ‘meri baat suno sirf’.

Phir aata hai control — phone check karna, kapdo pe comment, kahin aana-jaana manage karna.

Aur aakhri stage… manipulation ki — ‘agar tum mujhse pyaar karti ho to yeh badlo, woh badlo, sab chhod do.’

Pyaar kabhi tumhari identity nahi todta. Pyaar kabhi tumhe tumhari hi duniya se door nahi karta. Pyaar kabhi condition mein nahi milta.

Is desh mein hazaaron kahaniyaan hain jinmein ladkiyon ko pata hi nahi chala kab unka pyaar ek trap ban gaya. Aur phir shadi ke baad, ya relationship ke beech mein, asli naam, asli irade… sab saamne aa gaya. Tab tak der ho chuki hoti hai.

Main yeh sab isliye keh raha hoon… kyunki humari ladkiyon ko pyaar se zyada safety chahiye. Emotions se zyada awareness chahiye. Aur blind trust se zyada self-respect chahiye.

Kisi bhi ladke ki baat pe bharosa karne se pehle… uska sach jaanna zaroori hai.

Naam kya hai?

Family kaun hai?

Background kya hai?

Intentions kya hain?

Woh tumhe tumhari identity ke saath accept karta hai, ya badalne ki planning?

Yeh sawaal uncomfortable lagte hain… par inhi sawaalon se zindagi bachti hai.

Main yeh nahi keh raha ki har ladka dhokebaaz hai. Main yeh keh raha hoon ki dhokebaaz bhi ladkon ki bheed mein hi छुप kar baithte हैं. Aur woh sirf unhi ko chunte hain… jo emotional, innocent aur trust karne wali hoti hain.

Isliye pyaar karo, zaroor karo… par khud ko mat khona. Kisi bhi relationship mein apni visibility, apni identity, apni family, apne values ko gaayab mat hone dena.

Pyaar tab tak khoobsurat hai… jab tak sachchai ke saath ho.

Jab jhooth shuru ho jaaye… to wahan se pyaar nahi, exploitation shuru hota hai.

Aur agar koi tumhare dharm ko, tumhari azadi ko, tumhari pehchaan ko tod kar pyaar mang raha hai… to woh pyaar nahi, ek warning hai.

Aaj ki duniya mein sabse bada empowerment yeh hai —

‘Main kisi par andhe tareh bharosa nahi karti.’

‘Main apni safety ko sabse upar rakhti hoon.’

‘Aur agar koi mujhe jhooth bolta pakda gaya… to main turant door ho jaati hoon.’

Yeh monologue pyaar ke khilaaf nahi… dhoke ke khilaaf hai.

Identity ke saath khelne walon ke khilaaf hai.

Aur un ladkiyon ke liye hai… jo apna poora future sirf ek shabdon pe de deti hain — ‘Trust me.’

Bas ek baat yaad rakhna…

Pyaar mein sacrifice theek hai,

Lekin apni pehchaan ka sacrifice kabhi nahi."